Thursday, December 26, 2013

LOVE’s Gift: Responsibility!



In 2012, I had the pleasure of watching Jamie Foxx be interviewed by Oprah during an episode of her self-name “Next Chapter.”  There was one particular portion of the interview that has resonated within my heart.  As they were discussing his 2005 Academy Award for his portrayal of music legend Ray Charles, Jamie spoke of Oprah’s invitation to an after party at Quincy Jones’ house.  By listening to their dialogue, there was one person in particular that Oprah desired for Jamie to meet that night, and that person was Sidney Poitier.  As Jamie was recalling the “amazing experience,” he defined speaking with Mr. Poitier that night as a “life changing trajectory moment.”  The one statement Mr. Poitier said that set Jamie on a profound awareness regarding his work was:  I give you responsibility!  In light of this Christmas Season and with that in mind, let’s continue.
During my teenage years, it seemed I ended up going last minute Christmas shopping with My Father on Christmas Eve.  For some reason, at the time I didn’t mind making a “mad dash” to the stores, searching with all of the other last minute shoppers to pick out the gifts he desired to give.  I even remember returning home one Christmas Eve just for my brother and I to help Our Father assemble a toy kitchen set for our baby sister.  On that particular night, we only got a couple of hours of sleep before the rest of the family would wake up to open presents. 
By the looks of the stores and mall parking lots, My Dad was not the only one who LOVED extravagantly and enjoyed the adrenaline rush of last minute shopping or even the sheer joy of creating a late night assembly line.  However, today I have a “gift” from LOVE to You, Fathers.  A “gift” that LOVE desires for you to embrace.  It’s the gift called “responsibility”–to act like Him, like LOVE!

Act like men and be courageous; grow in strength!
Let everything you do be done in LOVE
(true LOVE to God and man as inspired by God’s LOVE for us).
1 Corinthians 16:13b, 14 AMP

Throughout the years of my natural born life, I have ached at Fathers who have consciously or unconsciously denied or ignored LOVE’s Gift that calls for them to act like Him, extravagantly displaying LOVE regarding the stewardship of their home (1 Corinthians 16:13, 14) .   In 1 Corinthians 11:3, the ladder of authority within the home structure is clearly established.  From top to bottom, it’s God, Christ, man, woman and then the children.  Therefore, in The Eyes of LOVE, a higher responsibility/expectation is placed on His “male-men” as it pertains to the stewardship ability of the “Gifts” LOVE has entrusted in his hands–wife and children...the godly legacy!  (Ephesians 5:22-31; 1 Peter 3:7; Malachi 2:15) 
For instance, if you aren’t completely satisfied with what you see within the borders of your own home, please check yourself first before placing any responsibility anywhere else.  Often times your wife and children are a reflection of the seeds you have sown in the past and you’re just now seeing the manifestation of those seeds live and in color.  However, if by any chance you are dealing with a harvest from the seeds others have sown, LOVE is still charging you to act like Him by embracing His Grace to LOVE the hell out of each and every one of your family members!  Although this is a tall order for any “male” earthed into time, always remember LOVE chose YOU for this assignment and divine privilege. 
I am hopeful you understand that the only way this can be accomplished is by growing you first.  As you experience more LOVE, you can release more LOVE.  As you experience more healing for yourself, you are then equipped to partner with The Power of LOVE to bring healing and wholeness to the hurts and wounds of those divinely placed under your care.  And PLEASE refuse, renounce, and denounce the lie and false-expectation that someone else will do what LOVE has called you to do. 
Therefore, take heart My Brothers!  Here’s a Super Dose of Hope:  When you lack Wisdom on how to act like LOVE–which may seem more often than you would like to admit–God Promises if you ask, He’ll hook you up exceeding abundantly above anything you could ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).  Therefore, be bold!  Then ask of Wisdom for as much as you need and as often as you like!  (James 1:5; Hebrews 4:16).  Be sure to remain in a posture to receive and catch The Divine Clues that The Answer to your questions has shown regardless of how It is sent or how It shows up.  Just keep a look out!  God Promises to Answer before you even call!  (Isaiah 65:24)
In conclusion, please know LOVE is counting on You My Brother!  Therefore, embrace The Message of LOVE’s Heart for you.  With LOVE, you are more than able to respond to the needs and desires of every “Gift” God has entrusted to your care regardless of how challenging things might be at times.  Please understand, it’s a mandate from Heaven whether you asked for it or not and whether it was planned or unscheduled, according to your time-table.  I implore you…Wake up to the spiritual gravity of LOVE’s Gift and begin to unwrap responsibility with pure joy for having the ability to respond like LOVE Promises to be a “Gift” that keeps on giving (Matthew 5:23). 

© 2013 Julianne Pearson
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Julianne Pearson is an Author, Relationship Strategist, Speaker and Trainer.  She is the Co-Founder of the LĪVE! movement, a speaking, training and coaching organization committed to developing extraordinary people, families, and businesses. Through her books, seminars and training workshop sessions, she empowers her readers and listeners to rise up to their first level of consciousness in order to advance the Kingdom of God on this earth.

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